When I get to talk to you for at least one minute in a day that already makes my day, when you hug me tight, it makes me smile, when you joke around with me like what best friends do, it makes me laugh, how you’re always there for me, makes me the happiest.

“Love” without actions is just complete bullshit. Don’t tell someone how much you love them, don’t promise them you will never leave them, don’t swear and cross your heart you will never hurt them… If you know you will eventually. They say actions speaks louder than words, but sometimes just words alone kills us all.

• You will be pampered with my sweet messages all day. Not every minute of the day, but I assure you that I will never forget making you smile within the day with just one sweet text from me.
• Expect that I’m going to plan my future with you. It’s cute to have someone who will plan the future with me. That is one good assurance that our future will never be a blank one, that there are plans on what we’re going to be someday.
• You will be my best friend and brother at the same time. I will respect you, I will tease you, but I will never hurt you because I love you.
• Be ready for silly love fights with me. I’m not a perfect girl. I fuck up sometimes, I commit mistakes, but that doesn’t mean I won’t keep on trying to be the perfect girl for you. I will disappoint you, but that’s part of a relationship. But I promise you I won’t let go of you no matter how hard the situation is.
• You will be loved faithfully. It’s only you, and nobody else will ever take your place. I may like some other guys like celebrities, but no one will ever replace you in my heart.

Pay attention to how she feels. 

When a girl does something, don’t think she’s doing it for no reason. If she’s hurting or if she’s crying, then don’t just brush it off as if it’s nothing to you because I promise you that there is reason to why she is acting the way she is, maybe she wants you to be there for her or maybe she’s going through some things. Take the time to listen to her, find out and understand what is making her sad or what is making her mad, you know? Then work to resolve the issue, don’t walk away from her because when you do, it makes her feel like she’s not even worth your time and you may not see it, but it hurts her when you treat her problems like they are nothing to you. She needs you to be there for her, not anyone else, so do just that and be the one that is there to comfort her. take the time to listen and understand, that’s all she’s really asking for. 

I  used to be the girl who never spoke her mind. The girl who usually sits in the back of the class and keeps to herself. The one who everyone passes by in the halls. The girl who gets ignored and looked past through in a crowd. I never said anything. I never complained. That girl used to be me. But you know what changed? My confidence. I grew to love myself the way I was. I talked more. I smiled more. Then it hit me that that was really what I needed. Time. And acceptance. I accepted the fact that I wasn’t the best. But that didn’t mean I wasn’t beautiful. And you know what? I didn’t care what other people used to think of me. I didn’t care about the ones who looked down on me. Or made fun of me for being different. I was happy with who I was, and I felt beautiful even when I was in a crowd full of beautiful girls. There was me. Although other people may have over looked me, I didn’t mind anymore. Because that was who I was. The girl who seemed to glow more beautifully from within. And in my opinion, that’s a lot worth than society’s label. Beauty is really in the eyes of the beholder. It’s how you see yourself that defines you.

Sometimes, the only option is to let go. But other times, the only option is to hold on tighter. If you know that you’re on the right track, then hold on. If you know that you can & still can, then hold on & fight for it. But, if you already knew at the first time that you are not doing it right, cut the crap. There are many fishes in the sea, and I can assure you, that the fish will come at the right time, the right place. Wake up. If he/she doesn’t like you, and you know that you already tried hard enough, let go. You are a strong person, and I know you can handle the heartbreak.

That boy who will secretly smell your hair, but you always notice. Boys may find it silly but, we girls do find it cute whenever guys smell our hair. Especially, when we feel that you are attracted to it. It will made us feel that you appreciate how we fix ourselves too long just to make you feel attracted to us more. It’s sweet, right?

Girl: “Describe a hot girl.”
Boy: “Blonde hair, huge boobs,brown eyes.”
Girl: “Then i guess I’m not a hot girl.”
Boy: “You never said to describe a perfect girl.”

So, learn to look past the exterior and see her for who she is as an individual. Put the time and effort in to get to know her, pay attention to what she thinks and why she thinks the way she does because there’s more to her then you would ever know. When you take the time to pay attention to her and listen, this shows her that you genuinely care about her, it lets her know that you’re willing to stay and get to know her rather then use her and leave you know? But, once you earn her trust don’t be stupid enough to abuse it and lose it because you don’t understand how hard it was for her to finally trust you because she’s been hurt before, she’s had people walk away when they got bored of her and she doesn’t want that to happen again. Be the guy that proves to her that she can learn to trust again.